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Saturday, Jan 08th 2011

A Simple Method for Setting Intentions and Achieving Happiness

authored by Kristen Mucci-Mosier

I've never been a fan of resolutions. I'm not sure why. Perhaps it's just the word that turns me off? "Resolution" sounds so, well, final and binding (and something you're doomed to break). Lately, I've given some thought to an alternative word that I've been hearing more lately: Intentions. When we set out with a clear intent on where we want to be in the future—whether it's in one month or one year from now—everything we do moves us in that direction.

I like to think of it in a visual way, so I've mapped it here (see image). Instead of moving along with no clear goals, setting intentions allows all our actions to be directed to a central desire.

So, why not consider where you want to be in the coming months or years? In fact, take out a piece of paper and write it down (it works, really, I've experienced it first hand). Start with one month and then one year, three years, five years, 10 years etc. (you catch my drift). And be bold, don't put limitations on your dreams; that's the beauty of dreams and desires, they are whatever you want them to be. Are you hoping to find a new job, buy a home, purchase your dream car, double your salary, get married, have a child or even just be happier? Set your intentions and put them out in the universe; allow yourself to dream and see where it takes you. You deserve it.

(Note: this post originally appeared in Wellness in Practice last New Year's, but I thought it was worth republishing. Have you made strides towards last year's intentions? Please share below.)

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Comments

Jan 12, 2011 11:Jan 11 | Andrea Ford said

Excellent advice for the new

Excellent advice for the new year. Thanks, Kristen!

Jan 20, 2010 12:Jan 12 | Mary E Knippel said

Manifest a Magnificent Year

I agree with you about setting intentions. Writing is so powerful along with creating a vision board (collage) where the images reflecting your intentions motivate us to keep going until our dreams become our reality.

Mary E. Knippel
www.openuptoyourcreativity.com

Jan 06, 2010 21:Jan 9 | Myrna said

Resolutions v.s. INTENTION

Thanks for the insight Kristen! The whole 'New Years Resolution' thing has become sort of a black cloud hanging over my head, that seems to mock me, yearly. I always remember the goals not reached rather than my successes. I really like your idea of INTENTION! It puts a more positive spin on things right from the start. Every small step I make, can be celebrated knowing I am that much closer to achieving my desires. Just changing my thought process makes it seem realistically possible.

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