Living With Multiples

You can endure.
Larry and I rarely have alone time together, and although we still fight, I think our marriage is so much better now because of everything that we've been through. I just have to remember how much we've been through and how strong we are now because of it.

Everything you go through is temporary.
When you want to scream because you're not sleeping, just know it won't last forever. When you want to cry because you're afraid you're running out of money, it will work itself out. When you are so upset because you have no furniture left because all they do is climb and jump, it only lasts a few months. And then you look back and it's over. You can be so proud of what you've accomplished as a family.

Don't be afraid to ask for help.
There are so many people who are out there who really want to help you. Whether it's friends, family members, people from church, work, etc.—let them help. It does not make you a bad parent if you accept help. I have found that when I take a step away for awhile, it actually makes me a more patient mom.