Considering Surrogacy? Get the Answers You Need

Every surrogacy relationship is wholly unique and can be characterized in many different ways. Some go into the match knowing they want a close relationship, some develop organically, or you may choose not to have a relationship, this all depends on your personal feelings and those of your surrogate mother. It is critical to discuss your relationship expectations with your surrogacy agency so they can match you with a surrogate that shares similar expectations. Important topics include regularity of communication, types of communication and the nature of your personal relationship. Of course, relationships evolve and change over time, so try to create a foundation with your surrogate mother on which a healthy relationship can develop.

Who makes decisions during the pregnancy, such as elective prenatal tests and the possibility of termination?
Important topics, such as prenatal testing, selective reduction and termination are discussed in detail with your surrogate mother before you move forward with the medical process. It is critical for you and your surrogate mother to share similar viewpoints on these subjects and be in agreement about who will make these types of decisions throughout the pregnancy. In addition, there is typically language addressing these subject areas in the surrogacy agreement you sign with your surrogate mother.
 
What is the general cost range?
Your specific circumstances and that of your surrogate mother will determine the associated expenses of your gestational surrogacy journey. On average, the expense can range from $60,000 to $125,000 depending on the following factors: insurance coverage, if you are using a donor, the location of your surrogate and whether you are doing a fresh or frozen in vitro fertilization (IVF) cycle.

What does the medical process entail? Are the eggs and sperm always the couple's seeking surrogacy? Who covers the medical bill and other related bills?